Remember to drive the point home if you don?t know anything about JWs, and don?t care to look it up insert an ?e? they are JeWs that believe in Jesus. If you happen to be in a place where there are no eligible JWs to marry they can morally can justify getting married to an ?unbeliever?(the label they will give you) to avoid fornication if they know they lack the self control to undergo celibacy until they find a eligible person. But JWs are not allowed to be homosexuals, or fornicators. The watchtower only advocates marring a non-JW for sex. BTW be prepared if they swear off being a JW then after a trauma in their life, or come mid life crisis decide to rekindle their "faith in Jehovah". He/she should know better, and may be looking for a way to break away rather than really loving you, or they want to convert you thinking that if you love them you go through the motions to become a JW (regardless if you believe it), or they may be an quasi-JW with baggage I know many inactive JWs, or children of JWs that consider them selves JWs anyway even if they never commit themselves, but only try to date JWs and won't take blood. In general your relationship won't work just ask them to leave JWs or leave you alone. I know too many JW non-JW marriages that ended in divorce. Which is JWs are too weird to marry non-jws in plain English. Also JWs are flighty with short memories anytime you act civil and tolerant they will bestow praise on you for "coming around", and try to instantly convert you, but when you loose your cool with them you?re obviously in cohorts with Satan.ĭon't waste your time. They go out and sweep naive JW girl off their feet, most of these guys tend to be older upper middle class, and looking for a house wife and baby maker.ĭon't listen to Lehaa (no offenses just you made it sound too sunny) if you marry a JW you won't like it, will be forced to become a JW, pull your partner any from JWs, or be the magic couple that does not mind being unofficial second class citizens. Sadly this is true and happens often when immigrant men that find American women are too liberal, and want too many things. They will accuse you of being a predator preying on abundance of JW women who can't find a mate (2/3rds are women I believe) because they are naive. You will be labels a seductress, with questionable character. Their reasoning is if you two get married the end of the world comes, only he survives, and he marries a perfect wife in God?s kingdom. JWs (his friends) are going to almost accuse him of being a polygamist. The watchtower has no scripture that can prevent your marriage.
The watchtower has admitted that they can't tell you whom to marry. Okay to spell it out there is nothing they can do, but guilt trip. For give me but I don't know your gender I will assume you are female, because most guys I know don?t care what the chick believes.
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